Do You Think You’re Special?

…in a bad way?     Like, no one understands…     Your shame of not wanting to have anyone over The ridiculous state of your internet and tech passwords Your debt breathing down your neck How you repeat tasks, totally forgetting you already started this How nothing seems to work, and it’s a series of starting over and over How when things are good, they suddenly crash… How your brain doesn’t work like everybody else’s And on and on..AND: How GENIUS you are How frustrated […]

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We Might As Well Stay Married…

Five years ago my client was beginning divorce proceedings from an unhappy and at times violent partner. She decided to work with me to handle the much needed organization of separating their estate, selling the house, figuring out old debts…there was a lot to do. Each time we encountered something challenging that she was tempted to avoid, she joked, “We might as well stay married.” Ha. Exactly! Because in many cases it feels easier to […]

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Just the Tip

…Of the iceberg, people! 😉 We can only see 10% of an iceberg. The other 90% is beneath the surface. The same is true with our stuff, space, time, habits, money, dreams, relationships…and our bodies. There’s the surface..and the other 90% unseen but very present truths. Joumor Principle: It’s the thing itself and something else.   Just as we are one being, our stuff exists in our world, and it’s all connected and affecting us all the […]

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The Most Dangerous Word in Productivity

The days are getting shorter. “If I had six hours to cut down a tree, I’d spend the first four sharpening the axe.” AbrahamLincoln Exactly, Sir. You’d spend 67% of the allocated project time to Preparation. And yet, that’s exactly what most people DON’T do- they DON’T dedicate nearly any time to Preparation, certainly not 2/3 of the time. Joumor Principle: 5:1=> 5:3. In Joumor, we begin by dedicating 83% of our time planning- for every five minutes […]

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You Can’t Handle the Peace!

Five months ago I was doing gymnastics seven months pregnant, dancing five times a week, meeting my friends for dinner and parties in NYC, visiting my family in NJ, and temporarily concluding my international travels. #nycbusy was pretty much me. Things are pretty different now. Having an infant means that time is not exact, and it’s out of my control. (I don’t sleep or feed on a schedule). As someone who took lots of classes […]

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How to Access Your Success

The other day I went to the eye doctor and it came time for the dreaded puff of air right in my EYEBALL. I mean, I don’t know if you’re into that kind of thing, but I’ve been freaking out about it since my first pair of glasses when I was four years old…or whenever the puff begins. Point is, it’s freaky and I have years of conditioning of freak out. This year, an amazing […]

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